| Location | Blackpool |
| Age | 6 months |
| Cause of Death | Rare Heart Condition |
| Date of Birth | 26/03/2006 |
| Date of Death | 22/10/2006 |
| Visitors | 12,268 since 23/03/2007 |
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Daisy Mai Whittall was born 26th March 2006 (Mothers Day). At 5 weeks old she got a chest
infection,within the next few weeks she wasnt feeding properly and couldn't cry very well unless you
were sat in the same room you wouldn't of been able to hear her.
I took her to Blackpool Victoria Hospital where they xrayed her chest, we were told her heart was
very large they were refering her to Alderhey (Liverpool) the next morning, we felt sick with worry.
When we arrived they were all waiting for her with all the big machines to look at her heart, it
wasn't good I was told she had the one heart condition no one wanted as there was no operation to
put it right. Dilated Cardiomyopathy (left heart failier) Daisy Mai would have to be on medication I
was told she would either be able to live life on them but would not be able to do things a healthy
child would as she would become tired easily, or it could become so bad she would need a transplant
which would not be a cure for her and the chance of a child doner was very slim, the other thing
they told us was that it caused sudden death and she could go without any warning.
I couldn't believe it I was on my own been told all of this, it was to much to take in Daisy Mai's
dad was at home sorting our three other children I couldn't tell him over the phone, he came as soon
he could the doctor went through it again he broke down. The doctor arranged for a counciler to come
and see us, all we could think about was loosing our little girl how would we cope without her what
would it do to her brother and sisters. There was no improvement she stopped feeding, I had to learn
to tube feed her, she was in and out hospital with chest infections each one worse than the last.
At 5 months old we went to Great Ormand Street we were told her heart was so large we would be
lucky if she made it to her first birthday, it would be a week till we found out if they would put
her on the transplant list. When were told she was on the list everyone one was pleased I just felt
scared, sick the things that could go wrong, she might not survive it.
Two weeks later she was rushed into hospital she couldn't breath properly and was going blue. Daisy
was ventalated straight away it wasn't straight forward they told us she might not make it, her
viens had collapsed which made things more difficult. When we got to Alder hey she was taken to ICU,
when me and her dad got there it was a shock seeing all the machines.
The next day she had to have an opperation to have a Broviac line fitted into her neck for her
medication they said she arrested but they managed to bring her back the surgen said she was a tough
little cookie. Daisy Mai's left lung had been crushed due to the size of her heart. It is so hard
seeing your baby so helpless not being able to hold her, we got our first cuddle after 2 weeks I let
daddy go first as it was his birthday it was very emotional I had to hold back the tears.
A few days later she was moved to HDU there was still no news of a heart Daisy Mai was on the top
of the list in all of Europe, it was so unfair that for my little girl to have a chance someone else
had to loose there child.
Two weeks later 22nd October at 5am the phone rang in our room the nurse said she wasn't good I ran
over as fast as I could, there were so many people around her they asked me to go to the parents
room they had sent for her dad the other children who had come to stay with us, as soon as the nurse
said that I knew what had happend but they wern't saying anything. When her dad and children came
the doctors came to tell us, it was the the worst thing ever. Daisy Mai was gone this would be the
last time I would ever hold my beautiful angel.
There are so many emotions you go through every day you feel different. Everyone said the funeral
was lovely we played Fly by Celine Dion and You are my sunshine sung by children everyone had a pink
balloon to release once the service was over.
There isn't a minute goes by we don't think of her. Daisy Mai had such a short life she knows how
much we love her, she left a big impact on our lives and everyone that knew her, she has made us so
much stronger .
We miss you so much princess love you always xxx Mummy Daddy Mia Aaron Tilly and your new baby
brother Thomas
FLY (Celine Dion) played at Daisy's funeral
Fly Fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud,the whitest Dove
Upon the wind of heavens love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again
Fly Fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forever more
But hold this memory bitter sweet
Until we meet
Fly Fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure your soul is free
Be on your way, don't wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise' the sun will set
But I wont forget
Fly Fly little wing
Fly where only Angels sing
Fly away the time is right
Go now, find the light.
Thankyou to everyone that lights a candle or leaves a message for our beautiful girl. It means a lot
xxx
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Now then little one, Its been a while Since Ive spoken to you properly..
How are you doing, Are you being a good little Angel for your Loving Family.. Ohh good :)
I want you to do me a huge favour and keep shining down over your Mummy
as she is missing you so much, God shouldnt have taken you we all know that but
now that he has we all have to help your Mummy get strong again dont we
Its been very wet and blowy this weekend hasnt it, But look.. Looks like the
Sun is finally going to come out today..
Are you still sleepy after the clocks have gone forward, hehe so Am I..
Listen I better get going now, Carry on twinkling over your Family and let them know your
Around to guide them through, All my love Fiona xXx
It's me again from Heaven
With a message from above
Feel my spirit all around you
As I sprinkle you with love...
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I have watched you, as your tears flow
I have heard your silent screams
I know you sleep with visions
Of me visiting your dreams...
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I have come and sat beside you
Placed my hands upon your face
Wiped away the many teardrops
I so wish I could erase...
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I have watched you every day now
Seen such pain within your eyes
I just wish that there were some way
I could help you realise...
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I am happy up in Heaven
In this peaceful loving place
Where I will be here waiting
To welcome you with my embrace...
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You will join me here in Heaven
When your time comes you’ll see
Leave your Earthly cares behind you
Travel on to where you’re free...
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I have heard you ask to go now
But there is more for you to do
I promise I'll be waiting
When your time on earth is through ...
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♥ THREE LITTLE WORDS ♥
♥ FORGET ME NOT ♥
♥ THEY DON'T SAY MUCH,♥
♥ BUT MEAN A LOT ♥
♥ FORGET YOU NOT ♥
♥ I NEVER WILL ♥
♥ FOR IN MY HEART ♥
♥ I KEEP YOU STILL ♥
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LOVE YOU BABY
Hi baby ~ Hope you had a lovely day today, lots of jelly and ice cream and a huge cake to share with all your friends ~ did you get your balloons sweetie. you got lots of lovely flowers left on your garden. We miss you so much babe we never stop thinking of you,what you would look like now,I would give anything to be able to hold you in my arms and kiss your face, Sweetdreams baby ~ Love you always xxx Mummy,Daddy Mia,Aaron,Tilly & Thomas xxxx
Happy birthday beautiful princess xx
Happy birthday daisy, hope youve had a fab time at ur party 2day lil princess, i bet all ur friends have made it extra special 4 u, make sure u send lots of extra special angel kisses down 2 ur mummy n family, they luv n miss u so much, ur such a special lil angel, sendin all my luv 2 u n ur family alwayz xx
Thinkin ov u maxine n family, i hope 2day has been gentle on u n ur family xx
The day you left broke our hearts
and tears fell like rain
but knowing that you now have wings
helps to ease the pain
We know now when the snow falls
it is angel dust from you
and when we see a shooting star
our angel just passed through
The rain drops do not make us sad
for they are not tears
but sprinkles of love falling down
our angel again is near
The winter cold has even changed
Jack Frost no longer exists
it's now a visit from our angel
and he's left a special gift
You also visit in the night
your wings flutter with grace
we know now when we awaken
that an angel has kissed our face
When the days are warm and bright
and the sun shines from above
we feel the warmth wrap around us
you've given an angel hug
You are with us at all times
every day and night
you try to end the pain we have
and the tears that we still cry
Though heaven is your home now
and angel wings you wear
you stay close to those you love
until they join you there
Love Always ~~ Jane...x♥x
Happy birthday sweetheart....
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Sometimes life's most precious things,
Slip too quickly from our hands,
Snowflakes, rainbows, childhood,
Castles in the sand.
God gave us a special spot,
to preserve them in our hearts,
A forever place where all we love,
lingers when we part.
Fireflies and autumn leaves,
Roses, kittens, dreams,
Icicles, sunrise, spider webs,
Mornings dew, moon beams.
Butterflies and baby birds,
Flowers that bloom in spring,
Perhaps in life God's greatest gifts,
Are blessed by Him with wings.
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Happy Mother's Day from Your Angel
Dandelions from Heaven
Mothers day is coming And I wanted to send you a sign
something you can tell others; "Is from an angel of mine
So I searched the heavens high and low for that perfect thing....
And low and behold I found it.... And a smile I hope it will bring.
So when you look to the heavens and see the yellow stars in the sky
Just think of me .... your angel... in the heavens way up high
And just imagine those stars; are dandelions up above.
Yes! Dandelions are also in heaven; which you know how much I love.
So on this mothers day and you awake and feel blue....
You will notice those yellow stars... are no longer in view.
So look to the meadows and the dandelions you see...
Are the ones I've tossed down this mothers day from me.
And when you find a dandelion that has turned from yellow to white;
Youre supposed to make a wish and then blow with all your might.
For you will be blowing kisses to me in heaven above....
And I will be catching them and blowing them back sent with all my love.
Please know that l am with you.... on this mothers day....
And also in the days ahead.... God and I will never stray.
We will be with you in the morning ....when you awake and see the sun....
We will be with you when you say your prayers when the day is done.
For God and I will never be very far from your side....
For I can now be everywhere.... and God will be your guide.
So.... remember when you see dandelions it is your guarantee
That I am always close to you.... for dandelions are free to roam ....now just like me.
I will always be with you mummy....
Happy Mothers Day....
Love your angel in heaven.
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