| Location | Blackpool |
| Age | 6 months |
| Cause of Death | Rare Heart Condition |
| Date of Birth | 26/03/2006 |
| Date of Death | 22/10/2006 |
| Visitors | 12,268 since 23/03/2007 |
| Creator |
Daisy Mai Whittall was born 26th March 2006 (Mothers Day). At 5 weeks old she got a chest
infection,within the next few weeks she wasnt feeding properly and couldn't cry very well unless you
were sat in the same room you wouldn't of been able to hear her.
I took her to Blackpool Victoria Hospital where they xrayed her chest, we were told her heart was
very large they were refering her to Alderhey (Liverpool) the next morning, we felt sick with worry.
When we arrived they were all waiting for her with all the big machines to look at her heart, it
wasn't good I was told she had the one heart condition no one wanted as there was no operation to
put it right. Dilated Cardiomyopathy (left heart failier) Daisy Mai would have to be on medication I
was told she would either be able to live life on them but would not be able to do things a healthy
child would as she would become tired easily, or it could become so bad she would need a transplant
which would not be a cure for her and the chance of a child doner was very slim, the other thing
they told us was that it caused sudden death and she could go without any warning.
I couldn't believe it I was on my own been told all of this, it was to much to take in Daisy Mai's
dad was at home sorting our three other children I couldn't tell him over the phone, he came as soon
he could the doctor went through it again he broke down. The doctor arranged for a counciler to come
and see us, all we could think about was loosing our little girl how would we cope without her what
would it do to her brother and sisters. There was no improvement she stopped feeding, I had to learn
to tube feed her, she was in and out hospital with chest infections each one worse than the last.
At 5 months old we went to Great Ormand Street we were told her heart was so large we would be
lucky if she made it to her first birthday, it would be a week till we found out if they would put
her on the transplant list. When were told she was on the list everyone one was pleased I just felt
scared, sick the things that could go wrong, she might not survive it.
Two weeks later she was rushed into hospital she couldn't breath properly and was going blue. Daisy
was ventalated straight away it wasn't straight forward they told us she might not make it, her
viens had collapsed which made things more difficult. When we got to Alder hey she was taken to ICU,
when me and her dad got there it was a shock seeing all the machines.
The next day she had to have an opperation to have a Broviac line fitted into her neck for her
medication they said she arrested but they managed to bring her back the surgen said she was a tough
little cookie. Daisy Mai's left lung had been crushed due to the size of her heart. It is so hard
seeing your baby so helpless not being able to hold her, we got our first cuddle after 2 weeks I let
daddy go first as it was his birthday it was very emotional I had to hold back the tears.
A few days later she was moved to HDU there was still no news of a heart Daisy Mai was on the top
of the list in all of Europe, it was so unfair that for my little girl to have a chance someone else
had to loose there child.
Two weeks later 22nd October at 5am the phone rang in our room the nurse said she wasn't good I ran
over as fast as I could, there were so many people around her they asked me to go to the parents
room they had sent for her dad the other children who had come to stay with us, as soon as the nurse
said that I knew what had happend but they wern't saying anything. When her dad and children came
the doctors came to tell us, it was the the worst thing ever. Daisy Mai was gone this would be the
last time I would ever hold my beautiful angel.
There are so many emotions you go through every day you feel different. Everyone said the funeral
was lovely we played Fly by Celine Dion and You are my sunshine sung by children everyone had a pink
balloon to release once the service was over.
There isn't a minute goes by we don't think of her. Daisy Mai had such a short life she knows how
much we love her, she left a big impact on our lives and everyone that knew her, she has made us so
much stronger .
We miss you so much princess love you always xxx Mummy Daddy Mia Aaron Tilly and your new baby
brother Thomas
FLY (Celine Dion) played at Daisy's funeral
Fly Fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud,the whitest Dove
Upon the wind of heavens love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again
Fly Fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forever more
But hold this memory bitter sweet
Until we meet
Fly Fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure your soul is free
Be on your way, don't wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise' the sun will set
But I wont forget
Fly Fly little wing
Fly where only Angels sing
Fly away the time is right
Go now, find the light.
Thankyou to everyone that lights a candle or leaves a message for our beautiful girl. It means a lot
xxx
For beautiful Daisy Mai
Memory is a lovely lane
Where hearts are ever true
A lane we so often travel down
Because it leads to you.
I am so sorry that I have not been on the site as much recently, but I am always thinking of you and your family with love. God bless, little princess. Angie xx
SENDING LOVE TO DAISY MAI. THOMAS WOULD LIKE TO INVITE YOU TO HIS 3RD BIRTHDAY PARTY TOMORROW IN GODS SPECIAL GARDENXXX LOVE TO YOUR MUMMY AND FAMILY XXX
2ND JUNE. 2009
AN ANGEL WONDERS.
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You come and stand before my stone
And seek a sign you’re not alone,
That I haven’t left your side and flown
into the endless sky.
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But when the sun shines warm and bright,
And embraces all with burning light,
And the moon rests lonely, out of sight
Do you doubt that night exists?
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Or when you’re walking in a country scene
A patchwork quilt of varied green,
Of hedge and field, so calm, serene
Do you doubt the sea roars loud?
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And when you see the flowers dance
A gentle waltz in summer trance
Though you cannot see what makes them prance
Do you doubt the wind blows strong?
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So why is it, you doubt I’m near
And long for signs to ease your fear
That I have flown this mortal sphere
And won’t return to you?
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It’s true that though I’m out of sight,
I’m with you every day and night,
Your thoughts hold onto me so tight
I’m anchored to your soul.
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And when you laugh, I fly up high
A kite that soars into the sky
But when you lie in bed and cry
It’s me that wipes your tears.
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The signs you seek, you do not need
I am in you; I’ll never leave,
Your life goes on, you mustn’t grieve
Because this angel’s flying high.
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Author Unknown
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LOVE JUDE. X X
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I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me.
- Author unknown
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If only our children were easter eggs
We'd have a heavenly easter egg hunt
All with baskets in our hands
Searching with a broken heart
Only we can understand
'Oh, look i found your child over here'
'Hey did anyone find mine?'
They are so beautifully coloured
They sparkle and they shine
These aren't your usual easter eggs
They each have their own specail glow
That comes from way down deep within
Only a grieving parent would know
We gather up our special eggs
With excitment all around
For the gift that we've been given
For the treasures that we've found
We all now stare with wonderment
At our children that have died
We want to hold them once again
And release them from inside
But, we all begin to realise
We have to crack the beautiful shell
The one that makes them sparkle and glow
The one they have earned so well
We know we cannot destroy this beauty
And take them from their place
So we give them an understanding kiss
As a tear runs down our face
One by one we take the baskets
With our beautiful coloured eggs
And place them gently on the grass
As we turn and walk away
We look back in amazment
As our eggs begin to sing
We see them flutter and move out
'Look our eggs all now have wings'
Then the golden egg begins to speak..
'Your children are safe with me
You'll be with them when the time is right
Together for Eternity'
We stand there in a circle of love
As we look up to the sky
Watching our radiant eggs take flight
Knowing our children can now fly
by christine ross
HAPPY EASTER
WITH LOVE KERRY
BABY JACK AND TABITHA'S MUMMY XX
SKY BUNNIES
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The sky is full of bunny clouds
So soft and fat and white,
I wonder if they're hiding eggs
For angels to find with delight.
Because angels like Easter as well, you know,
And there's no reason why
There shouldn't be an Easter hunt
In meadows in the sky.
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-{*~*~*~*~*~*ANGEL~*~*~*~*~*~}
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Now then little Angel.. I had to come and talk to you as Im going away for a little while and wont see you for a week.. How am I going to cope not seeing my precious angels who have been having so much fun with Bailey.. I will keep you in my thoughts all the time, and I will continue to wish your Family well..
Its Easter weekend, are you all excited for your Easter eggs, Ohh I bet you are, hehe just dont eat them all at once because you will be poorly, and we dont want that do we now.. No.. So you be a good little angel and eat them one day at a time..
I know all you angels will be with us on Sunday, lets hope its a nice day hey..
Have lots of fun and look after Bailey for me wont you whilst im away, Hes my star you see and I want to know hes going to be happy playing with all his friends..
Right then little one Fiona best be off, Got more angels to visit, Much love to you and your Family sweetheart, See you when I get back..
Ps Be Good :)
Fiona xxxxxx
If Only Our Children Were Easter Eggs
If only our children were Easter eggs,
Hidden safely in the grass,
We could search for them and pick them up,
And hold them within our clasp.
We'd have a heavenly Easter egg hunt,
All with baskets in our hands,
Searching with a broken heart.
Only WE can understand.
'Oh, look I found your child over here,'
'Hey, did anyone find mine?'
They are so beautifully colored,
And they sparkle and they shine...
These aren't your usual Easter eggs,
They each have their own special glow,
That comes from way down deep within,
Only a grieving parent would know.
We gather up our special eggs,
With excitement all around,
For the gift that we've been given,
For the treasure we have found.
We all now stare with wonderment,
At our children that have died.
We want to hold them once again,
And release them from inside.
But we all begin to realize,
We have to crack their beautiful shell,
The one that, makes them sparkle and glow,
The one they have earned so well.
We know we can't destroy their beauty,
And take them from their place,
So we give them an understanding kiss,
As a tear runs down our face.
One by one we take our baskets,
With our beautifully colored eggs,
And place them gently in the grass,
As we turn and walk away.
We look back in amazement,
As our eggs begin to sing.
We see them flutter and move about
'Look, our eggs all now have wings.'
Then the Golden egg begins to speak...
'Your children are safe with me.'
'You'll be with them when the time is right'
Together for all eternity.'
We stand there in a circle of love,
As we look up to the sky,
Watching our radiant eggs take flight,
Knowing our children didn't die.
Love Always Elaine xXx
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰
Happy Easter Sweeheart
The tiny bunny
Is working all day long
Decorating Easter eggs
While humming a song
He is having so much fun
Making eggs for you and me
And small chocolate bunnies
That he gives away free
But when he is finished
He'll bring them your way
In a big coloured basket
Upon Easter day
Sending lots of floaty kisses your way xxxxx * . * * . * * . * * . * * . *
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰
This special Easter wish
That comes with love to you
Brings warm and heartfelt thanks
For all the thoughtful things you do--
It also comes to let you know
You mean so much more each day
To everyone your lives have touched
In such a loving way.
Happy Easter, Carole, with love xxx
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♦♥♦ Cherished Memories ♦♥♦
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Sometimes it's hard to understand
To see the reason why,
Sometimes it's hard to find the words
To say that last goodbye.
Sometimes it's hard to look ahead
With eyes still filled with tears,
But all our cherished memories
Will live on through the years.
And though there are no answers
The questions still remain,
Sometimes we just can't comprehend
Or understand the pain.
Sometimes it's hard to look beyond
The rainclouds in the sky,
Though all our cherished memories
Will stay as time goes by.
Sometimes when we close our eyes
The only thing we see,
Are moments that are long gone by
Of how things used to be.
Sometimes we need to just let go,
Let tears fall as they may,
Reliving cherished memories
That never fade away.
(Author unknown)
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THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT FOR ME AND MY ANGELS.
LOVE ALWAYS ELAINE XXXXXXXX
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